PENGASUHAN ANAK PADA KELUARGA MUDA AKIBAT HAMIL DI LUAR NIKAH

Abstract

The young family as a result of marride by accident will be affected to parenting, where the ideal parenting will be seen on loyalty time, care and attention of parents to the child in order to grow into a better generation. However, too young to get married will hinder the knowledge of young couple about ideal parenting. The purpose of this study is to describe the knowledge of parenting on young families, to describe the problematics of parenting and to describe the forms of parenting on young families as a result of married by accident. This research was conducted by qualitative approach. The results of this study is the lack of knowledge about ideal parenting, so that the parenting has been converted the function from young families to grandma or sister them. Problematic parenting young families visits from three factors: the rearing, the actor who played and obstacles encountered during having children. There are four forms of parenting is democratic parenting, authoritarian parenting, permissive parenting and penelantar parenting. Different parents will apply a different parenting too. However, the mayority of young families used democratic parenting because it prioritised the importance of the child but remains under the supervision of parents, parents are more rational, realictic, opened, and able good communicate with children. Democratic parenting style is predominantly used to produce the characteristics of independent child, obedient, honest, good communication and coorperative towards others.